I realize the memories are fresh of your loss, but do you have any plans to replace her with a new one? If so, what one are you thinking about? Life must continue. We mustn't wallow in self pity. The job of grinding will always be there and someone, or something, must do it.
Very apposite
@MntnMan62 .
With the bonfire and interment now passed, yesterday found me at the kitchen table with a plain box, out from delivery quarantine (cf. The Porch Shelf).
As a matter of respect, I’ve had only tea these past three mornings, and I am ready to murder someone for a decent glug of that Kenyan peaberry glowering at me from the jar.
The box? A Hario ceramic burr grinder. None of it from a tree or from under a great German hammer press, but nicely made. The burr isn't set accurately and offers some wobble at french press grind settings. For now I'm only drinking dripper Joe. A US YouTube nerd has a fix for the wobble, which I might leave for a winter night...
Cannot imagine it will be with me for three decades. I'll be pushing ninety for it to beat Die Zass, so let's hope the nurse knows a bit about pour-over timing and bean:water ratios.
No sludge at all in the few cups I've had from it so far. Nicer to handle than my old pal, and a glass bowl with a rubber sock to keep it firmly on the deck. The bean to grounds journey is a whole new landscape, and my muscle memory takes me along old paths.
All joking aside, attachment to inanimate objects is an odd feeling. How objects hold memory, become totems, bolt one to the present, get rooted in your life. And how ritual around these things helps shape a day, week, month, lifetime. Many of us bike-lovers do this with our steeds, our favourite socks, our must-carry toolkit or our go-everywhere duck canvas saddlebag. Totems to protect and guide us, make us part of a particular tribe, help define us.
I'm seeing my road to Buddhist freedom from things is pretty much blocked by my addiction to caffeine, randonneuring and the holy grail search for the perfect greenwood carving axe / walling hammer.
Monsoon Malabar time.