The glare story is a modern folklore perpetrated by the eyewear business. As YS writes above, dirty, misted or scratched lenses or car windscreens will scatter light causing flare around the light source. To reduce the brightness of oncoming lights you would need to wear sunglasses, which would reduce vision dangerously in the dark. There is an anti-reflection coating for glasses, which is that greenish tinge you see on people's glasses, which works very well indeed in reducing reflection from both sides of the lens and makes the lens effectively more "translucent". This works as well at night as it does by day but the lens still has to be spotlessly clean. Yellow or orange tinted lenses won't reduce light scatter but they add cost and look "trick" so people feel good about them.