Lees sugar for sure. Watch the carbs - complex carbs (oats, pulses, etc) aren't a problem, but the rest of them need careful monitoring. Bread is also one to avoid. Cheese is the Devil's own work - i love the stuff, but if you eat cheese you may as well cut out the middle man and have a reverse liposuction. Very, very occasional cheese for me
I'm a
fat big, tall, hunk of a man and don't eat as much as you on a typical day - I have T1 diabetes and can be prone to thickening round the middle so I'm fairly careful with carbs as they can cause me more problems than sugar, but don't eat so much as you.
I typically do these days:
Brekkie - black coffee no sugar, oat bar (Mrs D shops around to find ones with an acceptable sugar content.
Mid morning - black coffee, hard boiled egg or raw carrot as a snack.
Lunch - small portion of pasta, or half a tine of beans, maybe with some veg on the side (veg is eaten under sufferance)
Mid afternoon - tea or coffee, hard boiled egg or raw carrot. That's it for caffeine drinks, never more than 3 a day, never later than 4pm.
Regular evening meal, portion size carefully controlled.
On a Saturday evening before bed I'm allowed a small choccie bar as a treat.
Very little alcohol.
I'm 6'4", fairly steady at about 116kg, 54" chest, 36" waist. I lift 6 days a week and cycle virtually every day, feel fine for energy etc.