Yes, if someone shows some kindness I always give a wave or a smile. I'm being entirely selfish. It makes me happy, and I hope it makes them better disposed towards cyclists.
I totally agree with acknowledging careful driving with a raised hand, a thumbs up, a smile or a nod.
Sometimes I think of it as expressing my gratitude, sometimes I think of it as giving positive reinforcement ~ enough with shouting or gesturing at the idiot drivers, I prefer to say thanks to the good ones (though I still do the other from time to time).
And it's double delight to get a smile back from the driver!
On sunday on the canal though, I was saying thank you to pedestrians on the footpath for moving to the side and not one said anything back! I went past a fellow MTB'er who said 'Good day sir!.'
My driving around cyclists has also been massively influenced by this site (and C+). The much maligned Spindrift was one of the 1st to drum into my head the extra care around cyclists while driving.
I often shepherd cyclists through parts of the city where I know pinch points are ahead - or on twisty country roads.
By that I mean I sit behind cyclists in my car with Mr Toad drivers up my arse, and refuse to overtake the cyclist until I am absolutely clear it's safe. This always gets -
1) Angry flashing lights/tailgating from behind
2) An appreciative and somewhat shocked wave from the cyclist when I've driven slowly behind them for miles.
I learned that on C+/ACF/here and Spindift and all his various user names was one of the main movers in my change of attitude. (While he's getting an unjustified kicking in other posts)
Yes I do this (both as motorist and cyclist) and have occasionally been thanked.
A few days ago I failed to overtake a police cyclist on a bend, where I knew there was a traffic island about 50 yards ahead between me and my turning (he was moving at a respectable speed). From the look on his face as he realised that someone was actually waiting for him to pass the pinch-point, he was quite shocked!
I do this, although I'd advise against saying "Thank you". A guy I said that to thought I'd sworn at him (he lip read "F*** you", I guess) and chased me before stopping in front of me and threatening to hit me.
Be careful that any gesture you do make can't be misinterpreted - there are a lot of angry people out there.
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