DaveReading
Don't suffer fools gladly (must try harder!)
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I don't see anything in the posts that you are taking exception to that constitutes victim blaming.
The accident was primarily caused by the driver being far too close
Fine.
I've had the (mis)fortune to spend my entire career in an industry where there is a clear and universally understood difference between "cause", "responsibility" and "blame" in an accident investigation (in fact the latter term is never used).
If you want to use those terms interchangeably, then of course you are perfectly at liberty to do so.