Bigtallfatbloke said:excellent thanks...
ok which groupset option in the drop down menu?
..also (bear with me I'm clueless) which set of bars, saddle, headset?
Groupset is entirely up to you. Being on the tall side you'll want either the 172.5mm or 175mm crank length. Take a look at what length you are running at the moment and if it's comfortable stick with it. I'm not sure 2.5mm makes a big difference either way.
The rest depends on how fit you are and/or whether you'd prefer a compact or triple. Personally I'd get the compact with a 12/25 cassette but you might want a triple to make the hills easier especially if you plan on carrying extra weight in the way of panniers. I notice the groupset comes with a braze on front mech so you'll need to budget for a braze on adapter (the one for 31.8 seat tube diameter).
For the rest, here's a few ideas, but have a google and see what bargains you can find.
Headset: £23 or £30. Loads more out there for similar prices just make sure it's integrated 1/18th with 36/45 angle bearings.
Bars: £30 I'd recommend oversize ones (31.8mm clamp), they are generally stiffer, handy for larger guys like us. What width you need will be a combination of personal preference and your shoulder width (probably the 44cm ones going by your measurements).
Stem: £27. Make sure that if you get oversize bars you order the oversize stem.
Saddle: These are a very personal thing but the Charge Spoon gets good reviews for something so cheap. £20