never thought of it that way, thats a great insight
i think on an individual basis, most very obese people are so due to poor diet and exercise. therefore in this case exercise alone wont get the desirered results
the idea of long slow exercise is to burn fat not calories as such
when i started walking 10 years ago it was because i couldnt run (not due to weight but ilness) when i tried to run it hurt so much i didnt do it. so i started walking and it was fantastic for me. not just the exercise and calories burnt as these could be negligible on short/medium walks but the fresh air, sense of achievement, walking not eating all makes you happier
my advice is try to do as much as possible but not so much you dont enjoy it as then you will stop
Anything people can do is better than nothing, and I didn't mean to disparage that. It feeds into the whole virtuous cycle, self-esteem, increased well-being, and simply not eating when you are out walking. So diet will play the biggest part for a start, but if you keep at it the balance does shift in favour of exercise rather than reducing intake.
I was heading for 50, 5'9" and the wrong side of 18 stone. From what I could do I think I was fitter than many of the beginners on here, who describe a great deal of distress cycling a mile. I could run up stairs, I could climb a large hill with a picnic, I could cycle 10-15 miles with my children with no ill effects, possibly a bit of breathlessnes, but I rarely did any of these things. I was however at risk of health problems, and decided to do something about it. I focused almost entirely on diet, with small exercise changes, walking to the shops at lunchtime instead of taking the car, for instance. I was 8 months in, and down to 15 stone 10 before I started cycling. 14 months from starting dieting I was down to 13 stone, and had become very serious about my cycling, which had taken over from any idea of weight loss. By then I was getting a lot of pressure from people around me to stop losing weight. It's funny how colleagues, family and casual acquantances suddenly had a view that I had a problem, when none of them had ever said 'You're getting very porky, aren't you?'
So I'm now fitter, probably than I have ever been, certainly since my teens, and lots of people are surprised at how much food I can put away. I'm at a level, as I said earlier, where my exercise has a major impact on the calories I need.