Why not carbon, out of interest?
Just to add to the sentiment re, carbon forks. There is a lot of fear and misinformation spread about carbon and it is almost wholly unfounded. Sure if you buy the skinniest, lightest frameset you can find from a cheap supplier then maybe you should rightly consider the limits in strength and longevity of the carbon components.
For a gravel bike that won't really be an issue. These are made to be tougher and barring an impact against something hard (like slamming your bike into rocks during a fall) you are unlikely to exceed the limits of the fork unless you are seriously heavy and ham fisted.
I have a nice steel framed Kona roadbike in Reynolds 853 with a carbon fork. Has covered over 10k now of touring and commuting, including some d!cking about riding down flights of steps and stuff. Absolutely no concerns about it.
I also have an all carbon gravel bike. This has been thrashed over rough mtb terrain, raced at cyclo-cross and ... ridden down flights of steps
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Neither bike has been pushed anywhere near the limits of the fork, and I am 95kg on a good day.
I can guarantee I ride my bikes more harshly than you ever will, you have nothing to worry about. Just buy the bike and enjoy it, forget it even has a carbon fork.