Where do you live? What sort of budget are you prepared to commit to get set up? What bike are you riding?
Wow, such a lot of replies, didn't expect that, thank you all so much for your input, very much appreciated indeed. only have time to respond to one question as i am dashing off to work, groan, monday, was yesterday fabulous?
Vickster - I have probably already spent over £100 on changing saddles, I ride an Marin east peak 5.5 MTB , i bought it last year afar my boyfriend persuaded me that my bike was crap, he was correct i had sine early 90's it was very tired but i loved it. I didn't get the pain on that bike even though the saddle was past its best and the foam was hanging out the side. I also have a hybrid road bike, specialized. I bought this about 15 years ago when i decided to get more into riding but somehow lost that track after riding london-cambridge in around yr 2000.
My riding style on both bike is somewhat upright and i think this could be the problem. I ride like this because i have a lot of stiffness in my neck and shudders and find that craning my neck upwards to see in front of me give me a lot of discomfort and a burning sensation across my upper back and neck area. I think the easier option maybe to get a new body but as that is not available as yet on the NHS i will have to work with what i have and find a solution.
I did read some of the forum posts after i had posted this and some had mentions the service that Specialized off in their stores, i believe its £120 for the set up. I am will to spend this as would really like to start enjoying my bike again especially as my new partner is so into it.
It terms of what my budget is, i really don't know, i won't but a new bike, i don't think, but will sent on some new bits and an analysis. so may a saddle, seat post , stem etc.