Plumber here........ They can be difficult to identify. Most builders merchants don't stock them. Our local one had a pair on the counter when I entered a few years ago, and I commented it's good they are stocking them. Their reply was "we've decided there's so many we won't bother stocking them". If you know the make/model of tap it's a good start. As said above "tap magician" are good and very quick service as well. Bristan taps have a date stamp on the side nearest the wall etched into the chrome, which may confirm they are Bristan, but doesn't overly help. Screwfix and Toolstation each stock a few, and I've found them (after Tap Magician) to be the most useful - take one of the tap handles to test the fit, and also turn it to test (some will fit on but slip under torque when fully open or closed). Some have a spline which is too long compared to the original, but can be filed so the handle goes on to the correct place if all other dimensions are the same, similarly if the spline is too short a small washer may space the handle to the correct place. If you are handy with a vernier calliper then tap Magician is probably the place to go, making sure the spline count is the same etc.