My giant defy is acting somwhat strange. The steering/handling appears somewhat dangerous and I feel as if I am not in control and that any minute I will hit the ground! It is very hard to describe but the steering is somewhat unresponsive....do you think the headset needs replacing? I can't think of anything else that might be causing the problem....perhaps you could suggest?
Unresponsive or unpredictably responsive steering certainly sounds like the headset. It should have a smooth, slightly cushioned feeling, like the volume control on an upmarket stereo.
That's what I'd check first.
If that's fine (and assuming tyre pressures are OK) then it may be worth looking at both sets of wheel bearings. If either wheel wobbles even a little, then those bearings are
no bon.
This might sound an odd place to look, but either set of bearings will make the bike feel directionally unpredicatable if they are Donald.
I'm assuming (apologies) that all the clamps for your bars and stem are nicey-tighty. That one's a bit of a long shot.
If it's not headset, wheel bearings, tyre pressures or loose clamps, are your handlebars slightly skewed after dropping the bike?
If you've had it a while, you may not notice them being a dgree or so out, but you may feel constantly as though you're having to steer slightly off the line you want to follow.
All the above have happened to me over the years, all took a few moments of Rodin-like thought to detect and all made the steering feel wibbledy-wobbledy or unpredictable.
Good luck.