You don't have to agree. I studied fuels and lunricants as part of my Masters (its relevant to rocketry) and engine oil will have some anti foam properties, but of a different type because of the temperatures and pressures they have to endure at the point at which engine oil risks foaming. As such, they dont work in the relatively cool and benign environment of a shock absorber, where different additives are required. Therefore, engine oil does make very, very,poor fork oil, and this why it is not used as such by manufacturers, despite being quite a bit cheaper. Try it and see, no need to take my word.
Alternatively, you can have gas shocks, where oil still does all the damping through orifice or shim stack, but the reservoir is kept under pressure with an intert gas, usually nitrogen, as a means to prevent foaming. Not normally found on bicycle shocks and forks.
So yeah, use motorcycle fork oil.