It took me nearly a year to buy lycra padded shorts. I am not a good shape for lycra. I was a total convert to those shorts within a mile of their first ride on the bike. It made such a difference to not have pain in my seat bones and lady bits that I cycled an extra 3 miles that day.
Since then I have got a couple of cycling tops, a sort of cycling tracksuit top (not sure what its called but its warm and has big rear pockets in and its very snug), at least 3 more pairs of lycra bib shorts/shorts and some long cycling trousers which still show off all my fat bits but I don't care. Lycra is simply the most comfy fabric to cycle in. It doesn't restrict movement, it wicks the moisture off and really helps with the diet

Especially when I cycle past shop windows and think 'hmm, maybe not a cream bun at the coffee shop today then'.
I have had the odd comment along the lines of "that is so not a good look" but that was off a really overweight chap at church. I pointed out that it was for exercise not for fashion. I have never had a comment about my wearing of lycra from another cyclist. I just feel wrong cycling in jeans or baggy cycling shorts, it all too 'flappy' and then you have to use cycle clips! They make me feel like my Dad.
There are plenty of non lycra bits of cycling kit out there too. Just look around and see what works for you
