I don't know how drop bars for gravel bikes and the like compare with road bike bars (I suspect they're wider and shallower) but one of my considerations when setting up my steel tourer-cum-general purpose bike with a view to doing mild off road as well as road riding was to have enough width to have good control in those situations. I settled for some Nitto Randonneur bars in the widest I could get at the time which was I think 42cm measured centre to centre of the tops behind the brake hoods. The shallow drops splay out a bit further, but work well enough for me. I'm not particularly immense, larger riders would probably prefer wider bars.The tops are wide enough to take cross levers, which is a bonus. I can see how narrow bars could constrict your breathing, while too much width can have implications for reach and the need for experimenting with stem length. There is scope for trial and error, but sometimes familiarity, and riding what you're used to and comfortable with, counts for more than squeezing the last bit of performance from your bike. YMMV, of course. I think it's the best I can get it for me, and it's still comfortable as an invisible bike for local trips. For going further afield, a recumbent trumps it for comfort.