When you are lighter, you need less calories to live on. I have found since I lost a stone or two, that to maintain my current weight, that I consume less calories than I did to maintain a higher weight.
This was all explained properly to me by a nutritionist. I can probably go look it up somewhere, but generally speaking if you are 6' tall and weigh 12 stone, you will need to eat less calories to maintain that weight than if you were the same height and 15 stone.
Lighter might mean less calories.
More active and lighter does not equate to the same thing.
Dangerous premise you are putting forward, please have a think and reword or remove that post.
I am sick to death of posts suggesting a grown man needs much less than 3000 cals a day if they are putting in a full working day and lot's of commuting miles on the bike, it's harmful crash dieting coupled with over exercise and I wish it would stop getting recirculated in the health section as being the thing to do.
You might get past 40, you might have a bit of belly and love handles - sod that and think about your CV fitness and what you can actually do - not how you look.
The fitter you are your calorific intake should go up or stay about the same for less weight unless you were seriously over eating or eating the wrong foods.