I find it really useful to know if someone has just joined. I tend to give them a bit more leeway.So what - there are probably loads of people that visit that don't post often - and whats in a name anyway? - pretentious moi
I tend to give them a bit more leeway.
so I am not mislead by it?
Seriously? If someone says something really stupid as their first posting, I don't want to frighten them away. If someone has been here for months and says something really stupid, I will call them on it. Either way, I will do it with respect.So "active members" are fair game for a bit of a lashing? I try to always give people leaway - its called respect
I find it really useful to know if someone has just joined. I tend to give them a bit more leeway.
I will call them on it
Do you really do anything different?
I think I am mostly constructive ... though I just called someone an idiot, so not always ... but if I joined a forum, and my first post attracted a dozen "constructive" posts explaining all the ways I were wrong, I might just chose to slink off and and find another place to share my views. I had that happen to me after I'd been here a few months, and I stuck around.
Anyway - are you not a bit of a relative newcomer to be throwing your weight around
yup - if I cant post something either, neutral, positive or constructive then I don't post - I'm only human so I have lapses (like now) but it seems to me that some make a career out "calling out" people
I think I am mostly constructive
Hence the use of the word "think"A matter of opinion
Perhaps we should modify the criterium for active to be a little more than 2 visits in 4 years?
Hence my question.It says the member has made 2 posts in 4 years, she/he could have been highly active reading the forum everyday.