Sorry for the loss of your friend.-he missed the other four goals. !
I lost my dad last year, who was a big Villa fan - I contacted the club asking them to do some sort of tribute - I was delighted and staggered with the response - they asked for a picture that they could display on the scoreboard - and then invited the whole family pitchside for a match towards the end of the season. Top class that.
A 'like' for the response from the Villa.
That is a good effort because they may get quite a few similar requests.
I'm aware Sunderland AFC had to put a ban on anyone scattering ashes on pitch at the Stadium of Light.
The occasional one behind the goal was allowed, but as requests mounted I think there was genuine public health concerns.
Sunderland also took to doing a single, general tribute on the PA at the last home game for fans who had died that season because individual requests were becoming too numerous.