The first cut is the deepest..... my bikes, being used, have battle scars but I was there when the newer ones happened. Still I can blame myself for most of these and put it down to wear and tear. Annoying though when something you have been careful with gets dinged by someone else in your absence.
It's a long time since I had a brand new bike and I remember the pang when the first chip or scratch occurred to something which I had maintained and polished to the nth degree. Somehow the magic is tarnished and it is on its way to becoming less special. I am not such a polisher these days, fortunately and put the blemishes down to "character" and "having a history". Well, that's what I tell myself, anyway.